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Everyone makes mistakes

As the title suggests we are all prone to making mistakes. Whether spilling the milk, stubbing your toe while break dancing, or perhaps even breaking a newly bought tent (which may or may not have happened to me this past weekend). We all make mistakes, no matter how large or small, they can seem significant when they are in fact wonderful learning opportunities.

The ways in which we react to another individual making a mistake can vary:
1) We can lash out at them and demean them for their mistake
2) We can ignore the mistake
3) We can also understand that it was a mistake and help them to learn from their mistake, in a constructive manner.

You know how you prefer to be treated when you make a mistake but it is not always your first inclination to react that same way. When your little sibling has broken a plate for 100th time it may not be easy to keep your cool but a lot can be said about the patience and understanding that comes from helping them grow as a person while allowing them to learn from their mistake.

In the end, no one is perfect. Accepting faults is key to better relationships and perhaps even understanding yourself a bit better.

I hope you enjoyed this quirky video and its simple message.

Take care everyone!

Ryan Turner
Hopeline Volunteer Coordinator

 
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Posted by on May 14, 2013 in Uncategorized

 
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Invictus

Invictus

William Ernest Henley

There is a lot to be said about the power of the written word. They can deliver you to a place of imagination or in this case give encouragement when needed. The struggles we face are never small or trivial when they affect our daily lives and interactions with others. I have always drawn a certain amount of strength from the knowledge that we all go through toil at some point in our lives. In some odd fashion it unites us and draws us together. The magical part is that Hopeline provides a conduit for people to vent and release the stresses and problems to those who can understand and listen fully. Empathy is an amazing force which creates a link to other individuals which is all too important in this day in time. Perhaps we can learn to grow a bit more as people while remembering Henley’s words of wisdom.

“I am the captain of my soul.”

We are the controllers of our destiny. I hope this poem brings you all strength.

Ryan Turner
Volunteer Coordinator Hopleine

 
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Posted by on April 30, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

To ASK or not to ASK?

I attended a free training at North Carolina State University to teach about suicide prevention. The training was called QPR and stands for ask the Question, Persuade them to get help, and Refer them to the help they need.  This training program was created to raise awareness about suicide prevention as a whole through mass saturation and word of mouth. The training goes over key points involving myths about suicide and warning signs. The trainings are free to the public and are made to raise awareness rather than be able to diagnose someone as suicidal. The similarity between CPR and QPR is applicable in this way because the more people who are aware, the more who can respond to a certain situation.

My experience in the class was positive. The presenter was extremely passionate about her work and made it a true learning experience. One fact that the presenter pointed out which surprised me the most is that suicide surpassed car accidents as the leading cause of deaths in teens.  I had always been told that teens were always at risk primarily when driving. It was shocking to learn suicide is more prevalent and made me sad that something that can be preventable is number one on the list of reasons of death in teens. One slide which stated that if you can’t ask if someone is feeling suicidal, find someone who can, resonated with me the most.  Believing that a certain problem or issue will resolve itself can be very detrimental. Taking action and the risk at possibly embarrassing yourself or another is well worth the risk when possibly saving another’s life. So readers, I broadcast the message that QPR instilled in me: If you suspect someone is suicidal please ask, and if you are uncomfortable asking, find someone who can.

 

Take care everyone!

Ryan Turner 

Volunteer Coordinator for Hopeline

 
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Posted by on April 23, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

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Skate 4 Life 2013 Sponsors, Thank YOU!

From those of us here at HopeLine, we want to extend a THANKS SO MUCH message to this year’s sponsors for the 3rd annual Skate 4 Life event!  Through the generous contributions from these individuals, groups, and organizations the lives of countless people will benefit from this community building event. We cannot convey how much we sincerely appreciate your support and donations. 

The list of sponsors continues to grow, and we welcome all contributions (sponsorship financial contributions, raffle and competition prize donations, and any in-kind donations).  Without our these sponsors and community supporters Skate 4 Life would not be the growing success it has been thus far. You are absolutely keeping Hope alive for so many youths and young adults who greatly need our committed support.

Thank you to the following sponsors of Skate 4 Life 2013:

Thank you to the following in-kind contributors for Skate 4 Life 2013:

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Posted by on April 10, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

HopeLine’s 3rd Annual “Skate for Life” Event to Take Place May 11, 2013

HopeLine’s 3rd Annual “Skate for Life” Event to Take Place May 11, 2013.

 
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Posted by on March 19, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

HopeLine’s 3rd Annual “Skate for Life” Event to Take Place May 11, 2013

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Benefit skateboarding competition to promote suicide prevention among youth.

HopeLine, Inc., a Triangle-based nonprofit providing free suicide prevention and crisis intervention help through its crisis line and Teen TalkLine, along with Coalition Skate Co., will host the third annual Skate for Life event on Saturday, May 11, from 11:00 a.m. until dusk at Marsh Creek Skate Park at 3016 North New Hope Road in Raleigh. The skateboarding competition will be held in honor of local teens and young adults who have lost their lives to suicide.

“We’re aiming to bring the topics of suicide, self harm and depression into conversation, making them less taboo to talk about as well as to raise awareness of the warning signs and risk factors that people can look for in their loved ones before it’s too late,” said Courtney Worthen, executive director of HopeLine. “This annual event seeks to raise awareness about the services available and remind these kids and others that there are people who care about them and that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.”

The first Skate for Life event was held in May 2011 as a grassroots memorial event organized by friends and family of Dylan McNeill, a Wake Forest teenager and skateboarder who took his own life in February 2011. Last year’s Skate for Life event was held in honor of Cody Nelson Arrington, Dylan’s best friend and fellow skateboarder who also tragically took his own life just seven months after Dylan. This year’s event will bring together the community to celebrate life and educate teens and their families on the signs and symptoms of teen depression, as well as give them resources they can turn to in times of trouble.

Last year’s event attracted more than 300 attendees and raised more than $6,000 in net proceeds, with a total of $9,000 raised altogether since the first event in 2011. All proceeds from this year’s event will go to support HopeLine’s Teen TalkLine website and will help raise awareness about the warning signs and risk factors for suicide among teens.

Skate for Life will feature graffiti artists, raffle prizes, food, activities for kids, vendors and more. Admission is free to the public. The cost of registration to skate is $10 for beginner, intermediate and advanced competitors and includes a raffle ticket and free t-shirt. New this year, Skate for Life will include a sponsored competition with a registration fee of $25. The winners will receive more than $1,500 in cash and prizes. Registration starts at 11:00 a.m.  the day of the event.

For more information about HopeLine, Inc., visit www.hopeline-nc.org, connect with them
on Facebook, follow @HopeLineNC on Twitter or contact the business office at 919-832-
3326.

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About HopeLine, Inc.
HopeLine, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization providing free suicide prevention and
crisis intervention help through its crisis line and Teen TalkLine. Founded in 1970, the
organization has provided a caring, non-judgmental platform to thousands of individuals
across North Carolina in an effort to improve the overall well-being of those in the
community. HopeLine is a partner agency of the United Way of the Greater Triangle. For
more information, email courtneyw@hopeline-nc.org, visit http://www.hopeline-nc.org or contact
the business office at 919-832-3326.

About Coalition Skate Co.
Coalition Skate Co. is a Raleigh-based organization that focuses on promoting social
activism through the sport of skateboarding. Founded in 2009, Coalition Skate Co. works
to promote social unity for a higher purpose. Among their many charitable pursuits,
the company works with the North Carolina chapter of the A. Skate Foundation that
provides skate clinics for children affected with autism. For more information, email
coalitionskateco@gmail.com or visit https://www.facebook.com/pages/Coalition-Skate-Co/
101207274250.

 
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Posted by on March 19, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

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Facts about Suicide & Depression

American Association of Suicidology

Facts about Suicide & Depression

 

What is Depression?

Depression is the most prevalent mental health disorder.  The lifetime risk for depression is 6 to

25%.  According to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), 9.5% or 20.9 million American adults suffer from a depressive illness in any given year.

There are two types of depression.  In major depression, the symptoms listed below interfere with one’s ability to function in all areas of life (work, family, sleep, etc.).  In dysthymia, the symptoms are not as severe but still impeded one’s ability to function at normal levels. 

Common symptoms of depression, reoccurring almost every day:

  • Depressed mood (e.g. feeling sad or empty)
  • Lack of interest in previously enjoyable activities
  • Significant weight loss or gain, or decrease or increase in appetite
  • Insomnia or hypersomnia
  • Agitation, restlessness, irritability
  • Fatigue or loss of energy
  • Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, guilt
  • Inability to think or concentrate, or indecisiveness
  • Recurrent thoughts of death, recurrent suicidal ideation, suicide attempt or plan for completing suicide

A family history of depression (i.e., a parent) increases the chances (by 11 times) than a child will also have depression. 

The treatment of depression is effective 60-80% of the time.  However, according to the World Health Organization, less than 25% of individuals with depression receive adequate treatment.

If left untreated, depression can lead to co-morbid (occurring at the same time) mental disorders such as alcohol and substance abuse, higher rates of recurrent episodes and higher rates of suicide.

Facts about Suicide

In 2010, suicide was the tenth leading cause of death in the U.S., claiming 38,357 lives. Suicide rates among youth (ages 15-24) have increase more than 200% in the last fifty years.  The suicide rate is also very high for the elderly (age 85+). 

Four times more men than women kill themselves; but three times more women than men attempt suicide. 

Suicide occurs across ethnic, economic, social and age boundaries. 

Suicide is preventable.  Most suicidal people desperately want to live; they are just unable to see alternatives to their problems.  Most suicidal people give definite warning signals of their suicidal intentions, but other are often unaware of the significance of these warning or unsure what to do about them.

Talking about suicide does not cause someone to become suicidal.

Surviving family members not only suffer the loss of a loved one to suicide, but are also themselves at higher risk of suicide and emotional problems.

 The Links between Depression and Suicide

 Major depression is the psychiatric diagnosis most commonly associated with suicide.  Lifetime risk of suicide among patients with untreated depressive disorder is nearly 20% (Gotlib & Hammen, 2002). The suicide risk among treated patients is 141 per 100,000 (Isacsson et al., 2000).

 About 2/3 of people who complete suicide are depressed at the time of their deaths.

 About 7 out of every hundred men and 1 out of every hundred women who have been diagnosed with depression in their lifetime will go on to complete suicide.

 The risk of suicide in people with major depression is about 20 times that of the general population.

 Individuals who have had multiple episodes of depression are at greater risk for suicide than those who have had one episode.

 People who have a dependence on alcohol or drugs in addition to being depressed are at greater risk for suicide.

 Individuals who are depressed and exhibit the following symptoms are at particular risk for suicide:

  • Extreme hopelessness
  • A lack of interest in activities that were previously pleasurable
  • Heightened Anxiety and/or panic attacks
  • Insomnia
  • Talk about suicide or have a prior history of attempts
  • Irritability and agitation

Antidepressants

 There is no evidence to date that the prescription of antidepressants for the treatment of depression increases the risk of dying by suicide in children, adolescents or adults.  The FDA has issued a Black Box warning regarding antidepressants in youth and young adults in response to evidence of twice the risk (4% versus 2%) of suicide ideation and attempts by those being treated with antidepressants.

 Be Aware of the Warning Signs

A suicidal person may:

  • Talk about suicide, death and/or no reason to live.
  • Be preoccupied with death and dying.
  • Withdraw from friends and/or social activities.
  • Have a recent sever loss (esp. relationship) or threat of a significant loss.
  • Experience drastic changes in behavior.
  • Lose interest in hobbies, work, school, etc.
  • Prepare for death by making out a will (unexpectedly) and final arrangements.
  • Give away prized possessions.
  • Have attempted suicide before.
  • Take unnecessary risks; be reckless, and/or impulsive.
  • Lose interest in their personal appearance.
  • Increase their use of alcohol or drugs.
  • Express a sense of hopelessness.
  • Be faced with a situation of humiliation or failure.
  • Have a history of violence or hostility.
  • Have been unwilling to “connect” with potential helpers.

Be Aware of Feelings, Thoughts, and Behaviors

Nearly everyone at some time in his or her life thinks about suicide.  Most everyone decides to live because they come to realize that the crisis is temporary, but death in not.  On the other hand, people in the midst of a crisis often perceive their dilemma as inescapable and feel an utter loss of control.  Frequently, they:

  • Can’t stop the pain
  • Can’t think clearly
  • Can’t make decisions
  • Can’t see any way out
  • Can’t sleep, eat, or work
  • Can’t get out of the depression
  • Can’t make the sadness go away
  • Can’t see the possibility of change
  • Can’t see themselves as worthwhile
  • Can’t get someone’s attention
  • Can’t seem to get control

If you experience any of these feelings, get help!

If you know someone who exhibits these feelings, offer help!

 

Talk to Someone – You are not Alone.  Contact:

  • A community mental health agency
  • A school counselor or psychologist
  • A suicide prevention/crisis intervention center
    • HopeLine (919) 231-4525 or Toll Free (877) 235-4525
  • A private therapist
  • A family physician
  • A religious/spiritual leader
 
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Posted by on January 30, 2013 in Uncategorized

 
 
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